Most Recent Articles on Parenting RAD Children and Teens

By Mark Hutten, M.A.

1.      All About Attachment Disorder: An Overview
2.      Adoptive Parents and Reactive Attachment Disorder
3.      Attachment and Adult Relationships
4.      Control and Limit-Setting for RAD Children & Teens...
6.      Insecure Attachment and Attachment Disorders
7.      Natural Consequences for RAD Children & Teens
8.      PARENTING CHILDREN & TEENS WITH RAD
9.      Preventing Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)
10.   Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD): Overview
11.   Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD): Warning Signs,...
12.   Reactive Attachment Disorder in Defiant Teens
13.   Reactive Attachment Disorder: Our Story
14.   Reactive Attachment Disorder: Self-Test
15.   Risk Factors for Reactive Attachment Disorder
16.   Secure Attachment
17.   Secure Attachment
18.   Self-Test for Reactive Attachment Disorder [RAD]

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PARENTING CHILDREN & TEENS WITH REACTIVE ATTACHMENT DISORDER

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What doesn't work: 1. Attempting to persuade the RAD youngster to change his mind by presenting “logical, reasonable, or “practical information”. RAD kids are highly unlikely to be influenced by reasonableness. Adult efforts to do so look “stupid” to a RAD youngster an can intensify his lack of feeling safe. 2. Emotional reactivity. RAD kids experience parents' frustration and anger as proof that the youngster is effectively controlling his parents' emotions. This only inflates their grandiose sense of power. 3. Negotiating with a RAD youngster. 4. Rescuing the youngster from the consequences of her behavior and / or attempting to solve the RAD youngster's problems for her. Philosophy— While love and parental common sense are necessary ingredients to successfully parent a youngster with attachment difficulties, they are rarely sufficient. This is due to the fact that most kids with attachment problems are too guarded and too distrustful to rec
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Reactive Attachment Disorder: Self-Test

By Mark Hutten, M.A.
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Does your child or teenager have Reactive Attachment Disorder? Take this test to find out: 1. Avoids or resists physical closeness and touch   Y/N 2. Bossy with peers   Y/N 3. Cannot be trusted   Y/N 4. Complains frequently    Y/N 5. Cruel to animals   Y/N 6. Destructive to self, others, and property    Y/N 7. Gorges or hoards food    Y/N 8. Has frequent or intense angry outbursts    Y/N 9. Has little or no conscience    Y/N 10. Has poor peer relationships    Y/N 11. Inappropriately demanding and clingy    Y/N 12. Indiscriminately affectionate on parents’ terms    Y/N 13. Is an angry child inside    Y/N 14. Is emotionally phony, hollow or empty   Y/N 15. Is impulsive or hyperactive    Y/N 16. Is manipulative or controlling    Y/N 17. Is oppositional, argumentative, defiant   Y/N 18. Is superficially engaging and charming    Y/N 19. Is unable to cry about something sad    Y/N 20. Lack of eye contact on parental terms    Y/N 21. Lacks cause and effect thinking
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Self-Test for Reactive Attachment Disorder [RAD]

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How can you know if your RAD teenager needs to be placed in a residential treatment program? Take the self-test below. If your RAD teen has 10 or more of the following symptoms/conditions, then chances are he/she is in serious need of residential treatment for RAD-related issues: 1. "I hate you," attitude 2. "You can't make me," attitude 3. Abrupt Change in Personality 4. Abusive Behavior 5. Academic Problems 6. Alcohol Abuse or Addiction 7. Anxiety 8. Argumentative 9. Attempted or Threats of Suicide 10. Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder 11. Authority Problems 12. Avoidant Behavior 13. Bipolar Disorder 14. Blames Others for His/Her Behavior 15. Blames Others for His/Her Mistakes 16. Blatant Disregard of Rules 17. Can't Accept "No" For an Answer 18. Can't Accept Feedback 19. Can't Keep Friends 20. Clinging Behavior 21. Conduct Disorder 22. Cutting 23. Danger to Self or Others 24. Demonstrates Poor Impulse
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